A most joyful, anointed divorce isn’t an absence of pain. It’s an absence of torment.
Even if we’ve never met, you were with me on every page of this book.
This message was written with you in mind.
A Most Joyful, Anointed Divorce is raw and deeply honest, yet guided by God’s gentle hand. It’s a Spirit-led, biblically grounded path for women rebuilding after divorce.
I didn’t just share my story. I shared the tools—Holy Spirit–inspired practices I’ve lived myself and taught to my mindset clients for years.
My prayer is that you experience both the understanding of someone who has walked this heartbreak… and the steady hope that comes from tools that truly restore.
ABOUT THE BOOK
Divorce can leave you broken, lost, and questioning how to begin again. This book is a compassionate guide to help you find healing, hope, and renewal. Through heartfelt storytelling and practical tools, Sherri shares her personal struggles and victories to remind you, “You are not alone.”
Blending biblical wisdom with actionable steps and tools, this book offers a roadmap to process pain, practice forgiveness, and rediscover your worth. Rooted in faith, it reassures you that God, who knows heartbreak, is your constant refuge.
If you’re feeling disoriented, emotionally exhausted, ashamed or confused, afraid of repeating patterns, or are unsure how to hear God clearly again, get this book.
REVIEWS
This book is powerful—moving, encouraging, and full of wisdom. Sherri’s strength and victorious spirit come through on every page, offering truth, hope, and heartfelt insight. It reflects the life and voice of a phenomenal woman, making it a beautiful and meaningful read.
- A. SHAW, ONCE DIVORCED + HAPPILY MARRIED OVER 20 YEARS
This book is truly wonderful. Sherri’s story carries a strength and clarity that will bless and encourage many—especially women seeking hope and healing. It reads like a victory lap over something that could have derailed most, yet she transforms her journey into wisdom, resilience, and grace. As you finish the final pages, you can sense the Father’s delight woven through her story. It’s a powerful and uplifting read.
- M. COPPINI, AUTHOR + HAPPILY MARRIED
Emotional stability. Renewed confidence. Clearer discernment. Freedom from repeated unhealthy cycles. A deeper sense of God’s presence. Peace about your current season. Those are the results you can expect from this book.
Table of Contents
Introduction 3
Chapter 1: Broken 5
Chapter 2: Exposed 14
Chapter 3: Cruel Kindness 22
Chapter 4: A Miracle 31
Chapter 5: Frenemies? 43
Section II: Process + Tools 59
Chapter 6: The Work 60
Chapter 7: Now Is the Season of Favor! 78
Chapter 8: In All Your Getting, Get Wisdom 96
Chapter 9: If It’s Hysterical, It’s Not Historical 108
Chapter 10: Fastest Way to Rewire Your Brain 123
Chapter 11: Practical Matters 136
Chapter 12: Forgiving the Unforgivable 150
Chapter 13: Graced to Be Single 160
Chapter 14: Divorce and Remarriage 174
Chapter 15: Lovely Endings 190
Epilogue 194
Appendices 198
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Sherri is a bold, insightful, and strategic thinker who combines practicality with a unique ability to inspire hope and a sense of purpose in those she ministers to. With an unending curiosity and steadfast pursuit of truth, she is a dedicated student of God’s Word. Drawing from over 30 years of in-depth study, Sherri provides foundational insights into the Word, enriching the lives of those she guides.
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I created this Bible study course as a true companion to my book—a place where the healing journey can go even deeper. When I sat down to write it, I asked the Holy Spirit to guide every topic, and He brought forward the themes we face most in our new single season. Each lesson carries insights and answers to the questions that matter most, offering comfort, clarity, and a path forward drenched in His wisdom.
Graced to Be Single Companion Course
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In this lesson, we delve into the promise of experiencing an anointed and joyful divorce, providing a clear and insightful understanding of what this transformative concept entails.
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Resilience, originally from the Latin meaning "to spring back," is the ability to adapt or recover from adversity and major life changes. For believers, this strength comes from God's presence and is nurtured through practicing His presence and encouraging oneself in the Lord.
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Lesson 3: No need to panic—I'm not talking about that F word! I'm referring to FEAR or FAITH, both choices we consciously make. Remember, we are not at the mercy of fear; we are empowered by God's faith!
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Experiencing a fear of loneliness after divorce is common for many newly divorced individuals. Rest assured, this feeling doesn't reflect any weakness or imply there's something wrong with you, especially if you deeply miss your former spouse's companionship. Allow me to demonstrate why this is perfectly normal and God’s answer.
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This lesson will guide you on how to attune your ears to hear God's voice and recognize those heavenly kisses—those special moments that affirm His constant presence with you.
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As we explore finances post-divorce, you may find yourself in a challenging position or needing to generate your own income. The prospect of being the sole provider can be daunting, but here's the uplifting truth: wealth creation simply involves applying kingdom laws that ensure abundance.
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Salvation is all about renewing your soul—transforming your will, emotions, and mind. This is the most vital work you can undertake, and I'm here to guide you through the process.
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This bonus content might just be the most rewarding part of your journey! It offers comprehensive answers to all your questions about divorce and remarriage, with some insights that are sure to surprise you!