I help Christian women rebuild and heal after divorce using my Graced to Be Single Framework, a Spirit-led process that restores identity, emotional stability, and confidence.
BUY MY BOOK, A MOST JOYFUL, ANOINTED DIVORCE.
Divorce can leave you feeling crushed, disoriented, and unsure of who you are. I know. I felt all of those things, but I also learned that God doesn’t waste even the most painful of experiences.
Time alone does not rebuild what was shaken—your identity, emotions, and confidence. Intentional focus and renewal does. If you feel:
You are not alone. You can rebuild ↓
The Graced to Be Single Framework is a Spirit-led path of rebuilding based on three intentional phases:
Stabilize. Calm emotional triggers and regain steadiness.
Restore identity. Renew your mind and rebuild who you are in Christ.
Rebuild with confidence. Develop strong, confident singleness rooted in truth and grace.
The result?
Emotional Stability. Clear identity. Strong and confident singleness.
After divorce, many women attempt to move forward by — staying busy, suppressing emotion, over-spiritualizing pain, rushing into something new, and trying to “be strong” without healing.
But emotional stability doesn’t come from pretending.
Identity doesn’t rebuild itself.
Confidence doesn’t grow from avoidance.
REBUILDING DOESN’T HAPPEN RANDOMLY. IT HAPPENS IN ORDER. GENTLY. INTENTIONALLY. BIBLICALLY.
The Three Phases of Rebuilding:
The Result?
A woman who once felt crushed becomes steady.
A woman who doubted herself becomes confident.
A woman who felt spiritually distant becomes focused and grounded.
This is not surface encouragement. This is intentional rebuilding using the exact process I used to rebuild.
YOU ARE GRACED FOR THIS SEASON.
The Graced to Be Single Framework:
This framework provides structure for renewal — guides by truth and partnership with Holy Spirit.
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The assessment. This customized report sent directly to your inbox shows where you are in your healing and what resources will best help you.
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The book. A Most Joyful Anointed Divorce introduces the rebuilding process.
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The Divorce Course. Learn at your own pace the most important things you need to know now with this companion course for the book.
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The Revival Room Community. Through the Revival Room live Zoom sessions, live events, and our private Telegram group, you will walk alongside women rebuilding with you!
FREE RESOURCES TO START THE PROCESS
Divorce has a way of whispering lies about your value. But God speaks a different word over you. This free resource gives you seven identity statements that will anchor your heart, rebuild your confidence, and remind you of the woman He still sees.
Begin your healing now with the Healing Reset Experience — an interactive Scripture guide designed to calm your nervous system, uncover emotional triggers, apply truth with intention, and partner with the Holy Spirit in a way that brings real peace and clarity.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Graced to Be Single is a community and resource hub designed to empower women to embrace and thrive in their single season—whether that’s for a time or a lifetime. It’s about finding purpose, peace, and confidence in your identity and relationship with God, not your relationship status.
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This space is for any woman navigating singleness — whether you’ve never married, are divorced, or widowed. If you’re seeking encouragement, healing, or a deeper understanding of your worth and calling, you belong here.
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Absolutely. Many of our messages, resources, and teachings speak to rediscovering identity and joy after loss. You’ll find encouragement and community among women who understand different journeys through singleness.
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Yes! Everything here is created with you in mind, too. Graced to Be Single celebrates women who are building a full and joyful life right now, without waiting for a change in relationship status.
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Yes. We offer faith-based teaching, group gatherings, and coaching experiences designed to help women grow emotionally, spiritually, and practically in their season of singleness. Check our Events or Coaching page for upcoming opportunities.
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Our foundation is built on biblical truth and the grace of Jesus Christ, but all women who value encouragement, wholeness, and personal growth are welcome.
Yesterday’s Grief
by Katherine Bates
The rain that fell a yesterday is ruby on the roses,
Silver on the poplar-leaf and gold on willow-stem;
The grief that chanced a yesterday is silence that encloses
Holy loves where time and change shall never trouble them.
The rain that fell a yesterday makes all the hillside glisten,
Coral on the laurel and beryl on the grass;
The grief that chanced a yesterday has taught the soul to listen
For whispers of eternity in all the winds that pass.
O faint-of-heart, storm-beaten, this rain will gleam tomorrow
Flame within the columbine and jewels on the thorn,
Heaven in the forget-me-not; though sorrow now be sorrow,
Yet sorrow shall be beauty in the magic of the morn.
